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May 2013

LONE WOLF

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you never know what the heck is going to happen and where the paths will lead but I’m a firm believer that everything happens for a reason and I very rarely have regrets. especially with relationships because even if it didn’t work out, chances are you both learned something about yourself and have a bunch of good memories to take with you onto the next journey. all this being said, I’m basically getting to the fact that my relationship with the “Silver Foxxx” ended last week.

so now it’s back to being a:

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 many things factored into the split but one main hurtle that put a strain on things was not living in the same city. an hour and a half trek when you both work mon-fri often times till 6pm or later means you basically have the weekends to spend with one another. most weeks we’d have Wednesday as well but still..starting and building up a relationship not living in the same place at any point proved to be more difficult than I thought. like I said, many factors came into play with the ultimate decision to go our separate ways and I don’t normally put my personal life out in the open but so many people have asked and expressed concern and he had a presence here on the blog so just putting the news out there..

all in all, everything is great and I couldn’t be happier for the next chapter!  
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necklace: UO, sunnies: Marc by Marc Jacobs, top: F21, jeans: O2 via WildFlag, boots: Rag O Rama
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what’s next? don’t know but I’m real intrigued!
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I’m really thankful for all the support and love from my friends + family. man, I’m truly lucky! it’s never easy when a relationship ends no matter the circumstances and I am fortunate to have great people in my life.

speaking of, a group of my gal pals and I went to Panama City Beach on an adult Spring Break adventure that was JUST what the doctor ordered! epic pics coming up next!
watch out Atlanta and surrounding area, Flashy’s on the prowl!

Darling + Dapper

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with recent rainy days upon rainy days and random periods of cold fronts that make you question which month it is, my wardrobe has experienced some backtracking resulting in returning to Fall pieces. for example, these two-tone Anthropologie slacks, part light wool/part cotton blend that I wore two weekends ago while hanging out in the White Provisions area paired with some of my favorite recent on-sale scores. these slacks were just $19.99, bag was $60 (and I used a coupon for $15%) and top was $39.99, gotta love some deals!
speaking of, I know I’ve admitted this several times but just for good measure I’ll say it again: I LOVE A GOOD BARGAIN. while I wish I could buy full priced pieces from shops like Madewell, Anthro, Free People, Jcrew, (INSERT SO MANY MORE HERE…) I just, can’t. even if the funds are there and I’ve convinced myself I “deserve” something new and amazing for one reason or another, I still go for the deals. looking back, I suppose I have my mom to thank for instilling this in my brain as she wouldn’t buy things full priced and insisted that “it’ll always go on sale” and she’s right. I’ve worked in many retail stores and saw this for myself so I usually follow that golden rule while shopping but oooooccasionally treat myself to a full priced item every now and again.. 
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Perry Ellis button down, Billy Reid tie, Asos slacks
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had a few day drinks and threw darts at Ormsby’s which has a great wine and beer list and TONS of fun games, highly recommend for day or night. 
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a stern Silver Foxxx :P
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new fave white wine: Cambria’s Chardonnaydouble_bright
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I’m Wearing: Dear Creatures blouse, Anthro slacks, Zatchels satchel purse via FP.com, Sixtyseven boots via Anthro.com, iced Americano via Octane on Howell Mill

Happy Humpday!
next up: either a INSTA-FLASHY post since it’s way overdue OR a Street Style inspiration post…..I’ll surprise you!

-Flashy

FLASHBACK FRIDAY

this past October I was snapped by my friend Matthew Smith of Shadowboxer Photography cruising down Highland Ave. during Atlanta Streets Alive October Halloween Parade Edition in a wacky space girl costume flashing a peace sign.  this month the photo made the COVER of Atlanta Intown in celebration of the upcoming ride that’ll be taking place in downtown ATL! it’s been loads of fun having my friends post on my FB wall and texting with “IS THIS YOU?!”
YEP, its me, Lady Flashy!
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ASA started in 2010 and I had the pleasure of attending the very first one with two of my girl friends and posted about it here on the blog, here’s the post!  It’s been neat seeing how it’s evolved and improved. Looking forward to many more rides to come!

interested in participating? you’re in luck since the next ASA is THIS SUNDAY! and this is the first time we’ll be taking over Peachtree Street, which should be interesting especially since the weather isn’t looking ideal, but I’m crossing my fingers and doing my anti-rain dance so maybe mother nature will have mercy on our active souls :)
bring your bike, walking/running shoes, hula hoop, razor scooter or JUST YOU and join us this Sunday from 2-6pm!

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visit the ASA website for more information:
w w w. ATLANTASTREETSALIVE . c o m

HAPPY FRIDAY, yall have a good weekend!
-Flashy

FARMERS MKT

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whether you’re into local or international, Atlanta has a farmers market for everyone. if you’re from around here chances are you’ve probably hit up Your Dekalb Farmers Market in Decatur which is a HUGE international market that has everything from live fish to yummy foreign beer to brand name organic goods. I like visiting both the permanent one AND the little seasonal pop up markets that are hosted in various neighborhoods. two of my favorites are the Grant Park and East Atlanta Village Farmers Market. I’ve discovered new produce, met and made friends, sampled local cheeses and taken home delicious produce. last Thursday and Sunday I snapped some pics at both spots
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the chef herself, Brittany Grace, behind Grace’s Goodness which provides honest, clean (and yummy!) goods like her spinach & green garlic soup.  Brittany is sweet, fashionable and great at cooking and can be found at BOTH markets!
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Leila of Native Bear sporting a woven purse perfect for carrying home a few bundles of goodies!
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local shrooms!
bought a bag for myself and with a gal pal cooked’em up in white wine and served over rotisserie chicken, NOM NOM NOM!
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thanks to the farmers and attendees who stopped for snaps and stuff!

VISIT THEM!
Grant Park Farmers Market
Sundays April – December 9:30am – 1:30pm
Corner of Cherokee Ave & Milledge Ave.

East Atlanta Village Farmers Market
Thursdays April 18th to December 12th 4 – 8pm

561 Flat Shoals Ave
Atlanta, GA 30316


-FLASHY

FESTIVAL FASHION

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being that Shaky Knees music fest was rainy and very very muddy the conditions for fashionable attire were non-existent but a couple’a ladies (and a few gents) gave it their best. denim, parkas and hats could be seen on many and MOST were wearing boots of some kind. took the majority of these photos on the second day when the sun came out to say hello for a bit…but here’s a small recap of both days!
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my outfit details- top: UO, jeans: Citizen of Humanity, (borrowed) boots: Hunter, sunnies: Clothing Warehouse, flower crown (that is now destroyed) made be me!
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gave my babe this shirt from the Hawaii Forever 21, he loved it!
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these ladies said to hell with it and went for fun + functional with a tribute to Cinco de Mayo

like I previously said, proud of everyone for putting music first and getting out in the cray weather!

the Silver Foxxx and I just bought tickets to Austin City Limits, can not wait for those 3 days but in between now and then there’s lots of fun to be had!
-Flashy